Just a few random things . . .

First, my good friend Abbie, otherwise known as the Farmer’s Daughter, just welcomed her baby boy Joshua Daniel!  Both baby and mama look beautiful and healthy.  I am so happy for their whole family, including Grandma Ruth, over at Musings of an Everyday Woman.   I am so looking forward to all the cuteness and stories that baby Joshua will bring.  I can’t wait!

Second, it’s been a rainy few days here outside of D.C.  Yesterday we headed into the city to visit one of my favorite museums, the National Gallery of Art to see this photography exhibit and the Chester Dale Collection, which includes this painting, a print of which is now hanging inside my house and which I know little about; anyone else know anything about La Coiffure (1901)?   The whole family ducked inside the museum from the pouring rain and we all stayed, together, for about 20 minutes or so.  Then my hubby, ever so politely, asked to duck back out with Annabelle and go see the trains and dinosaurs over at the Natural History museum.   Maybe there’s hope for Levi, I thought?  Maybe I can encourage an art lover in my little guy?  We pushed onward.  I stopped at painting after painting, pointing out the colors and style of art, noticing that others in the gallery would smile at me and at Levi.  I continued talking, checking now and again to make sure my little art lover was listening.  A man who passed me stopped, smiled and said, “Now that’s a true art lover.”  I laughed.  I walked a few steps and then leaned over to peak at my little guy.  He was in a deep sleep, :-)  Oh well, I guess I’ll have to be a solo lover of the arts.

Next, I’ve been reading and reading ever since you all made book suggestions so I could expand my horizons.  I just finished Last Child in the Woods by Richard Louv, which opened my eyes to just how disconnected my generation and my daughter’s generation are from mother nature.  Growing up in an old manufacturing town in Connecticut, alongside a lake and surrounded by woods, farmland, and home to a state park and nature center, I thought that my childhood had been one that any Huck Finn could appreciate; Louv points out though, just how little yesterday and today’s children understand, play, and love nature (and thus the environment too).  What I found most helpful was a long and thorough appendix entitled “Field Notes.”  There, I read with excitement the simple and endless ways that I and my children can reconnect with nature.   I’ll be sure to make more of an effort to allow time for unstructured outdoor play and exploration of the woods behind our house.  And I can’t wait to read these articles, by Louv, too.

I also just wrapped up Growing Up Green by Deirdre Imus, one that I remember having read before but definitely learned a few new things the second time around.  Imus wrote this book as  part of her efforts to nurture a healthier environment for her family and for children with cancer; in her book she talks about her work as the founder and president of the Deirdre Imus Environmental Center for Pediatric Oncology(R), part of Hackensack University Medical Center (HUMC).  When I read about Imus’ dedication to helping children fight cancer and to helping families prevent against disease, I have to say I was in awe; I remember almost 3 years ago when I started blogging, I thought to myself, “This will be a great way to do something for the environment and for my new baby.”  Becoming a mother ignited my passion for the environment.  For Imus though, and this I think is admirable and outstanding, she not only decided to make a difference for her immediate family but cast her net wider by setting up a foundation.  Growing Up Green, is an awesome read too.  My favorite parts were those on baby nutrition, especially because this time around I am bottle feeding and because Levi is just getting started with solid foods.  I can’t wait to try a few of her recipes.

Which leads me to my last random note: I’m cooking!  Can you believe it?  After all these years of proclaiming myself the anti-chef, I am finding that I actually enjoy chopping up vegetables, tossing food into a skillet and putting together a healthy, yummy meal for my family.  Oh, yeah, and even more shocking . . . it has occurred to me that I no longer enjoy cleaning.  There is more to this story than I’ll share here, but what I will say is, thank you oh wonderful universe for giving me postpartum depression and helping me realize that I don’t have to have a spotless house.  No one is going to get me.  I joke, but seriously, I think there is something deeper to my wanting my house to look like a “showcase” as my girlfriend puts it.  What I like, what I really like about a clean house is a clean house . . . I just don’t like the cleaning part.

So, that’s it . . . hopefully I’ll get to do some photo work sometime soon.  Lots of reading, lots of playing, lots of being productive and learning about budgeting.  All good stuff but not photo stuff.  May the next time I post be photo stuff.

How was your week?

{ 4 comments }

abbie March 14, 2010 at 8:43 pm

Yay for cooking! And thanks for the love :)

Jessica Reply:

Can you believe it? I’m going to share a few recipes very soon . . . what an adventure!

Laura March 14, 2010 at 11:37 pm

Ah! Thanks for the book notes! I bought and started the Last child book and haven’t had time to finish it as of yet… but I see it as a good spring read for while Liam is napping and I am (hopefully) enjoying the sun! I’m still struggling with the clean house thing myself. Today, Matt took care of Liam for an hour so I could scrub and dust to my heart’s content. In the past, that would not have been nearly as sufficient as needed to settle my cleaning bug, but today, it was just right. I even got a chance to get some sewing in!

Jessica Reply:

On the one hand, it feels good not to feel obsessed with having to have a clean house; on the other hand, it is so good for our kids’ health, allergies, asthma, etc. to dust, remove pet dander, etc. As someone with asthma, I really do appreciate having hard wood floors and a clean home.

As for the books, I tend to peak at chapters that appeal to me rather than force sections that I just do not want to read. I’ve finally given myself permission to say, “I don’t want to read such and such,” and then move on.

Dcan March 16, 2010 at 12:56 am

How great you got to go to the Museum! Sounds like your reading actual quality books – I should try that. I can’t seem to give up the fluff & fantasy genre, although I did read Animal, Vegetable, Miracle last year. I’m looking forward to May when my hubby is on vacation and he will hopefully be inspired to do some healthy cooking, since he is the better cook. I don’t really like cooking or cleaning – not sure why I am the stay at home parent. :-) I do think I could enjoy it more now that my kids can help.

Jessica Reply:

I could use a little fluff reading too! Any suggestions?

Prasanna March 16, 2010 at 12:09 pm

That book by Richard Louv must have been great. I am very concerned about my kids getting enough nature. They are in school/daycare from 9-6pm, then indoors. Weekends are jammed with activities and they spend too much time inside the car. They have never had the opportunity to freely explore! I have been pestering my husband for a fence around our backyard because my main concern is losing them (paranoid?-yes). Then I want to send them out there (in the fenced in backyard).

My childhood was spent outdoors exploring. My family was not so work oriented as I am, and we camped all over America! I frequently lost myself in the woods around my house. Ahhhh, blissful memories. I hope I can give this to my kids too.

Jessica Reply:

Louv talks about the “bogeyman” associated with playing outside nowadays; I hear you: I am afraid of my daughter (and now babe) getting hurt, in trouble, kidnapped when my eyes are not on them. I think it would be really hard, if not impossible, for me to allow my kids to run around, without an adult or teen supervising play . . . I’m not sure that I am on the same page as Louv when it comes to this.

Pras, your childhood sounds amazing. Camping across America sounds like every kid’s dream; perhaps our family will give it a try this summer.

Prasanna Reply:

I hope you get to do that, and include Yellowstone National Park and the Grand Canyon on your list!

Yes, it was an amazing childhood thanks to my parents passion for the outdoors and efforts.

Since reading this post, I have made a point to get my kids out more after work near our house. That extra hour from day light savings makes a huge difference in my life!!

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