What Else?

by Green Mamma on September 12, 2009

in Breastfeeding,Parenting and Attachment Parenting

Just a quick note:

No more bronchitis. Annabelle started preschool. It’s too soon to say “how it’s going.” She likes it and she doesn’t like it. We’ll see . . .

Levi is attached. Seriously. He is always in a baby carrier. He let’s other people (read husband) hold him when they place him in a baby carrier and move, move, move, move, move . . . I’d write “move” again, but that would just be redundant, :-)

I thought Levi had colic. Whoa, that was a rough week. I discovered he doesn’t feel so hot when I eat dairy foods and chew sugar free gum. No more dairy. No more gum. Happy Levi.

Thanks to Levi, we are getting to know our neighbors. Sure, we knew them before but my baby boy may have the heart of an outdoors man . . . he likes to be outside, so we go outside. I bought a tailgating chair (which my husband says is oh-so-classy) and I sit in the parking lot in front of our house nursing my baby. Annabelle and the neighborhood kids draw with sidewalk chalk, ride their bikes and trikes, and run races around the lot (which is something of a cul-de-sac in our townhome community). Of course, the kids are more than a little interested in a new baby, so Levi has something a fan club. Annabelle doesn’t mind this; she announces her status with pride, “Oh yeah, well I’m his big sister.”

And I’m doing great. Really, I am. I try to shower everyday. I wash my hair. I even manage to apply make up and get dressed. This is a little tricky though. Levi likes to watch me do this from a front row seat. I wear him in the ergo while getting ready, so this little man is going to know a thing or two about a woman’s beauty routine. He doesn’t seem to mind, so far . . .

We go places. I reward myself with trips to Starbucks. I have only had one awful, awful outing and this happened when I brought along our stroller. After removing Levi to place him back in the baby carrier (what was I thinking by trying to put him anywhere but the carrier?), the double stroller lost its balance and Annabelle nearly tipped over backwards; fortunately, my sharp mommy skills let me move swift as a fox . . . I swooped in and came to her rescue, balancing the stroller and encouraging her to hop in the stroller’s other seat (she likes to ride in the back seat where the smaller, lighter weight kid is supposed to ride). Anyway, my point is, we’re making our way outside of the home. And it’s good. But, it’s not without mom learning something new now and again.

Like . . . Levi hates riding in cars. He yells a lot. A lot. I’ve learned that my best bet for riding in cars with a Levi is to nurse him, wear him, and have him fall asleep and then slide his big old baby self into the carseat where I quickly snap him in and instruct his sister, with a whispering voice, to hop into her seat. That works. Guess what doesn’t? Rushing. Poking Levi in his face (that would Annabelle) and shouting, “Hi Levi!” This upsets him. A lot.

What else? I miss blogging. But, I also like spending these moments admiring my baby. Staring at his tiny fingers and toes, his chubby cheeks and double, double chins. Hearing his little heh-heh sighs and nursing him before he even completely rouses as he lays beside me each night. It is wonderful to have a newborn again. Oh and it is so much work too. Which is why I think it is ambitious of me to say that I would like to try and blog once a week. Again, we’ll see . . . I am not a superwoman. But again, we’ll see . . . writing is my outlet; I need it, so maybe I’ll be around more than I think and then again, maybe now is the time for living, for finding out what to write about next . . .

See you when I see you.

Take care,

Jessica

{ 11 comments }

maryanne September 12, 2009 at 11:06 am

Lovely post. Sounds like you have our stroller, and we have that same problem with the bottom seat and the bigger kid wanting to ride in it.

Lily agrees with Levi on being next to mama 24/7. She is, however, my first child to enjoy car rides. Having gone through two who hated it, you have my full sympathy. Hooray for no more bronchitis – my two non-infants just got diagnosed with that yesterday, a lovely going-away present from their miserable flu last month. Thankfully they should recover quickly now that they’re on antibiotics.

woowoomama September 12, 2009 at 12:27 pm

the car! both my kids hated it. i know my town very very well because there have been years of my life when i don’t feel it is fair to try to drive any further.

it is so nice to hear from you. it sounds like things are going just as they should.

i am thinking of you and wishing you the best of transitions. i won’t expect you once a week – perhaps more like twice one week and then again three weeks later. ;)

Zonnah September 12, 2009 at 12:31 pm

Take your time, we all understand :)

Abbie September 12, 2009 at 1:09 pm

Good to hear from you and to hear the update! I love reading along and daydreaming about my own baby when he or she arrives in March. I can’t wait for springtime when he or she arrives, summers outside, fall with pumpkins and hayrides, and Christmas and playing in the snow next winter.

As for my finger, since you were wondering, I cut the tip off while chopping a leek. Had to have it reattached (tape, not stitches) with no pain killers. It hurts but it’s more ugly than anything else right now.

mamasapplecores September 12, 2009 at 2:32 pm

I’m glad to hear that things are going better for you. I meant to write after your 2 week update, but life has been a little out of control it seems and I haven’t been doing much correspondence…

It is such an adjustment for everyone having a new baby on hand. A high needs one (and a high needs toddler) makes life extra interesting. We know first hand. Thank goodness for baby carriers. Wrap naps. Wrap bounce on the ball. Lots and lots of bouncing in our house. Screaming in car seats, it does eventually get better. I’m glad that you’re able to get out some. And glad you figured out the dairy – took me 8 months with my first to figure out dairy. Then I was dairy free (even “hidden” dairy) for 3+ years for the kids. Sugarfree gum….you could try Spry – it’s sweetened only with zylitol and that works in our house (artificial sweeteners give me husband migraines).

Enjoy your family, and I look forward to your next post. :)

Amber September 12, 2009 at 6:18 pm

My daughter also loves to brag up her big sister status to the other kids. I think she views him in the same way some single people view dogs, as something of an ice-breaker. As long as it’s positive for both of them I think it’s great.

It takes a while to get the swing of two. But pretty soon you won’t even give it a second thought. And now that my baby is one, it’s often easier to have both of them. They’re starting to entertain each other and that’s sweet indeed. You really do have so much to look forward to.

In the meantime, take all the time away you need and savour these days. As you know they are over way, way too fast.

Isil September 13, 2009 at 4:31 am

Sounds like you are doing really well.
Your words about Levi..so lovely.I would like to cuddle my baby,too,yet it is too early.I am only 5 months pregnant :)
D. also started to a Montessori Nursery this past week.She liked it so far.However I was with her,first day all day long and second day I sat at the corridor.Next week I’ll leave her and let her spread her wings.We will see how it goes.
Enjoy your babymoon :)

Prasanna September 14, 2009 at 10:16 am

Hey, I loved your post. I am really missing out on seeing Levi and I hope to see you guys soon.

Since you can’t have dairy right now, I wanted to tell you about this drink you can get at Whole Foods called Almond Breeze, Chocolate. (get the regular kind that is sweetened) It’s lip-smacking delicious. I just learned about it from my vegan cousin, and I have to say it’s a lot better than chocolate soy milk. But my cousin warned to stay away from other Almond Breeze flavors. It’s sooo good, pure perfection. Not high in calories or fat. Try it!

Theresa September 16, 2009 at 6:47 am

We both have an Annabel(le) and we both have a blog with the same name (different spelling). So I thought it best to introduce myself. By the way, I remember this stage of parenting so well. I have 3 children (13, 10 – my Annabel and 6 – my son). Enjoy it. :)

I also have another blog, where I post more frequently: http://treesfam.blogspot.com/

Blessings to you and your family!

Aisling September 19, 2009 at 11:02 am

I’m glad to stop in and find an update. You know this already of course, but… to everything there is a season. The time will arrive, all too quickly, when Levi is more independent and you have time to write again… to snap photos.. and to wonder why the days are going by so quickly. Enjoy these precious days.

Ruth September 20, 2009 at 10:07 pm

Jessica,

Admiring your baby Levi and spending time with Annabelle are so much more important than blogging right now, so don’t worry! Enjoy your children and rest, yourself, when they’re resting! You have the most important job in the world!

Hugs,
Ruth

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